This week’s episode is a little different. We’re pulling back the curtain on one of our BJDW Community Masterclasses, the kind of deep, beautiful, heart-level conversations we host each month with special guests to encourage our community gals on the journey to freedom.

We’re joined by Sharon Hodde Miller, author of Free of Me and Gazing at God, to unpack the root of insecurity, and why we often feel insecure when we’re standing on something shaky.

Sharon shares how our culture has taught us to treat insecurity by focusing more on ourselves… when the real freedom comes from shifting our gaze to God. She talks about why self-focus is exhausting, what true biblical self-denial looks like (hint: it’s not self-rejection), and how to spot when we’ve made something about us that was never meant to be.

If you’ve ever found yourself striving for validation, wrestling with comparison, or feeling “not enough” in your faith, parenting, or purpose, this conversation is going to offer you so much encouragement!. 🙌

💡What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why you sometimes feel insecure because you’re standing on something insecure
• The two causes of insecurity and why self-focus is often the hidden one
• What the Bible really says when people bring their insecurities to God
• The difference between self-denial and self-rejection (and why it matters)
• How “self-focus” often masks pain or unhealed wounds
• What to do when insecurity or comparison starts spiraling
• How to gently re-center your gaze on God instead of yourself

💌 Links & Resources:

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Books by Sharon Hodde Miller:

Free of Me: Why Life Is Better When It’s Not About YouGazing at God: Discovering the Freedom of a God-Centered Life

Sharon’s First Podcast With Us: Free of Me: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-jesus-drank-wine-other-stories-that-kept-us-stuck/id1661252590?i=1000651035959

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